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The Powerful Potential of a Christmas Interruption

Proszę, nie przerywaj mi. Jestem zajęty!

Bitte unterbrechen Sie mich nicht. Ich bin beschäftigt!

Kérlek, ne szakíts félbe. Elfoglalt vagyok!

Regardless of the language one speaks, the message is the same: “Please do not interrupt me. I am busy!”

But the theme of interruption threads it way throughout The Christmas Story. Read below to see how Zechariah, Mary, Joseph, and the shepherds responded when God stepped in.

Zechariah’s Interruption, Luke 1:11-17

And an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing to the right of the altar of incense. Zacharias was troubled when he saw the angel, and fear gripped him. But the angel said to him, “Do not be afraid, Zacharias, for your petition has been heard, and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you will give him the name John. “You will have joy and gladness, and many will rejoice at his birth. “For he will be great in the sight of the Lord; and he will drink no wine or liquor, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit while yet in his mother’s womb. “And he will turn many of the sons of Israel back to the Lord their God. “It is he who will go as a forerunner before Him in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the fathers back to the children, and the disobedient to the attitude of the righteous, so as to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.”

Mary’s Interruption, Luke 1:26-33

Now in the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city in Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin engaged to a man whose name was Joseph, of the descendants of David; and the virgin’s name was Mary. And coming in, he said to her, “Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you.” But she was very perplexed at this statement and kept pondering what kind of salutation this was. The angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; for you have found favor with God. “And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name Him Jesus. “He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High; and the Lord God will give Him the throne of His father David; and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and His kingdom will have no end.”

Joseph’s Interruption, Matthew 1:18-21

Now the birth of Jesus Christ was as follows: when His mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together, she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit. And Joseph her husband, being a righteous man and not wanting to disgrace her, planned to send her away secretly. But when he had considered this, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for the Child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. “She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins.” Now all this took place to fulfill what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet: “Behold the virgin shall be with child and shall bear a son, and they shall call him Immanuel,” which means, “God with us.” And Joseph awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took Mary as his wife, but kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus.

The Shepherds’ Interruption, Luke 2:8-12

In the same region there were some shepherds staying out in the fields and keeping watch over their flock by night. And an angel of the Lord suddenly stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them; and they were terribly frightened. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of great joy which will be for all the people; for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. “This will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

In our 21st century busy and buzzing lives, God still graces us with interruptions. How will we respond?

In our 21st century busy and buzzing lives, God still graces us with interruptions. How will we respond? So, this Christmas, whether you find yourself waiting in a stalled line of traffic on the interstate or in a slow checkout que at the post office, whether your fixed focus is distracted by the urgent ring of the doorbell or by the untimely cry of a baby, pause momentarily and consider the significance of the moment.

  • This interruption might present a divine opportunity.

  • This interruption is probably inconvenient and will involve a sacrifice.

  • This interruption may call you or me out of our own agenda and into God’s Bigger Story. For Zechariah, Mary, Joseph, and the shepherds, it certainly did, didn’t it?

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

How do you typically respond to an interruption?

What lesson from God’s characters in the Christmas narrative can enlarge your borders to embrace the interruption in a whole new way?



10 of Our Favorite Christmas Traditions

Trudging down to the basement Larry and I make our annual pilgrimage to the back corner where a stack of boxes awaits our approach. For 11 months these cartons stood silent. But now, back upstairs, as each lid comes off in the firelight of the family room, we unpack a host of treasured items known as Christmas Decorations.

Traditions create warmth and cohesiveness to a family’s fabric.
— Living With Eternal Intentionality®

But as we unpack the items, we also unpack a part of our lives from within that corner of our hearts—Traditions. Traditions create warmth and cohesiveness to a family’s fabric.

Over the five decades of our marriage, Larry and I collected festive expressions from around us. With the passing of time, obviously, we kept some, culled others. But what remains is our own representation of the European cultures and international communities where God called us to reside. Now, along with the contents of the basement boxes, we have accumulated a treasure trove of traditions that have stood the test of time. Here are 10 of our favorites.

Our Favorite Christmas Decoration to Unpack

The German Pyramid: Standing several feet high, the candlelit decoration creates an ambiance beyond belief.

Our Favorite Story to Read

The Other Wiseman: Oh my, this novel by Henry van Dyke makes a literary contribution to our Christmas Eve that stirs each listener. And the children’s version is a must for younger attention spans.

Our Favorite Beverage to Sip

Hot apple juice enhanced with Aspen Mulling Spices

Our Favorite Meal to Anticipate

Raclette: Invented in Switzerland, this is a delicious cheese-based meal conducive to holiday conversation.

Our Favorite Dishes to Enjoy

The Waechtersbach collection from our many years of living in Germany, red plates and mugs with a green Christmas tree in the center

Our Favorite Quirky Tradition to Honor

Christmas Adam: Setting apart December 23rd as a holiday in and of itself. After all, Adam came before Eve and the 24th is Christmas Eve!

Our Favorite Christmas Morning Tradition to Uphold

Stockings and cinnamon rolls: The delight of stockings filled with tiny surprises floods my heart with joy. And the yummy baked delicacies are a crowd-pleaser for everyone as they sit and listen to Larry (aka Dad and Granddaddy) read the beautiful Christmas Story from Luke 2:1-20.

Our Favorite Memory to Forget

The first empty-nest-Christmas: Rather than unpack the memories of lives no longer living under our roof in Budapest, I decided to try something new and decorate the entire tree with only the heavenly hosts. Bad idea.

Our Favorite Tradition to Offer as a Wedding Gift

A box of ornaments collected over the years to present to each adult child as they married and set out to celebrate the first Christmas in their own newly established home.

Our Favorite Tradition to Toss

The idea that everything must be done every year: The most meaningful tradition is always celebrating the birth of Jesus; as long as this tradition is front and center, enough is enough.

Now, blessings to you and yours as you move forward in creating your own collection of Christmas traditions!


Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

What tradition makes you look forward to celebrating Christmas?



Holiday Hurt Served on the Menu

Tom turkey sits cooling on the buffet, Aunt Lucy’s homemade rolls stand at ready, and empty chairs wait like sentinels for their occupants to come to the table. This is what you have waited for! The exhilaration of finally taking off your apron and sitting down to enjoy your guests is about to be realized.

Then, slicing the atmosphere of thankful perfection, a well timed icy comment is served from the mouth of one individual—like grouchy Uncle Joe or prickly cousin Madge or jealous sibling Rog or the crowd’s angry teen. And, with crafted verbal precision, the message lands squarely on your ego.

Ouch! That hurt!

As the air goes out of the room, all eyes turn to you; what are you going to do? As hard as you tried to cover all the culinary bases, you failed to prepare for this spicy serving of words.

Holidays are not for the faint of heart, and a plan for resilience needs to be in place right along with the menu.

Holidays are not for the faint of heart, and a plan for resilience needs to be in place right along with the menu. Here are a few suggestions to deflect the delivery of the fiery dart:

  • Let it go.

  • Lay it down.

  • Leave it behind.

  • Don’t pick it up again.

This is the perfect scenario for living out the apostle Paul’s words from 1 Thessalonians 5:18, “In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus,” especially at Thanksgiving. Your day is too important and your other guest are too precious to get bogged down in one sour opinion.

The recent series Button Pushers, Controlling Your Reactions During the Holidays from our pastor Chad Hovind at Horizon Community Church gives more runway for this prickly topic. Hopefully, you will find it helpful.

And, please know that I am abundantly thankful for you, dear reader!

Living With Eternal Intentionality®

“And this is eternal life, that they may know You the only true God, and Jesus Christ

whom You have sent” (John 17:3).

When have you been in a holiday gathering and watched a verbal scene threaten to ruin the occasion?

What advice would you offer to help the hostess prepare for the unexpected, the unforeseen, and the unwanted?